Q2. Judging
#2
Posted 30 January 2005 - 06:11 AM
Because it shows in our minds that we believe one to be deserving of favor more than another, deeming ourselves worthy to make that call.
How does favoritism make one a judge with "evil thoughts"?
Because when we show favoritism, it is usually with selfish motives whatever they may be.
#3
Posted 30 January 2005 - 09:03 PM
Jesus was a model showing us that wealth and appearances make no difference. The only reason Jesus took Peter John and James with Him to various places was because they loved Him. When we come closer to God, He comes closer to us. Jesus wasn't showing favoritism to the three, but rather, they chose to come closer to Him. Jesus wasn't going to spend more time with those who didn't want (desire) to be with Him.
#4
Posted 31 January 2005 - 10:35 AM
When we show favoritism to someone, we are becoming a judge. We are lifting one up and putting one down. That is judgmental. We take upon ourself the role of a judge when we are partial.
When we show partiality, there is no justice but a lurking desire to get something out of our partiality. That covetous desire is a sin. Showing favoritism makes out of us a judge with evil thoughts.
[FONT=Times]I can do all things through Christ that
strengthens me. Phil 4:13
#5
Posted 31 January 2005 - 12:37 PM
When we look upon another by their outward appearance, or by what we perceive as their worth to ourselves, we are judging them--something the Lord told us we are not to do! We cannot know the life they have had, nor what they have had to overcome to get where they are. Nor do we know the pain--nor the intent--of their hearts.
Favoritism shows we are judging others. Just as a teacher observed one kid who was dirty, smelly and a troublemaker as not worth her attention, so enjoyed giving him "F"--until the day she learned he had lost his mother a few years before, and had faced a horrible home life that had him on a downward spiral. She reversed herself, making an effort to show him his worth by her work and praise of him. This "worthless" kid went on to become a famous doctor whose work improved the lot of many persons! What if she had not cared enough to try???
What would be the result in our neighbors or the people we meet if we were to show them that God thinks them worthy of His love? By our acceptance and showing them love, we can do so. Yeah, I know. I can only do so also by His enabling! I pray daily for that!
#6
Posted 31 January 2005 - 12:38 PM
This practice is evil because through favouritsim some persons are held back and not allowed to achieve their full potential or to realise their goals.
#7
Posted 31 January 2005 - 12:52 PM
to get to the computer. but i don't want to miss the 1st question.
hope no one minds if i answer it on Mondays. thank you
What kind of person or what kind of sinner do you tend
to discriminate against?
i'm being more cautious about my thoughts these days.
but in the past i couldn't understand how a person could
be dirty or smell.
What kind of people are you (or your
church) trying to make a good impression on?
A i'm trying to help anyone that will let me.
even if i have to take verable abuse.
B as for my church that depends what you mean.
if you mean where i go on Sundays they seem to
want to help anyone of the same denomination.
C if you mean the church i believe in (which is
the church of GOD) same as A
D see i go to church and teach at a catholic parish
yet i go to a baptist women's bible study. i also
communicate with proestians,hindu,budist,...non be-
lievers,etc..i just feel i belong to the church of GOD
In what way does favoritism make one a judge?
showing and believing that one is better than an other.
in GOD's eyes we are all equal.
How does favoritism make one a judge with "evil thoughts"?
1st that you have the power to judge(that's GOD's job)
2nd that you treat people diffrently according to how you
feel about them.
#8
Posted 31 January 2005 - 01:13 PM
When we show favoritism we decide that we know what is worthy and what isn't. Matthew Henry says "we should not show respect for men so as to cloud or lessen the glory of our glorious Lord".
How does favoritism make one a judge with evil thoughts?
We prefer the outside things that are seen that make us look good whereas God looks on the heart.
#9
Posted 31 January 2005 - 01:36 PM
The truth of the matter is everyone we look at in this world we should look at as a fellow brother or sister in Christ...if not today, then maybe tomorrow...and maybe based upon how you react to them today. Thank you Jesus for loving and choosing me...Amen.
#11
Posted 31 January 2005 - 04:19 PM
When we play favorites, we have already judged the one we are shunning - - saying they are not as important or worthy of OUR time.
Jesus loved all - - especially the sinful - because He came to show them the light. We should be that light that shines in all the darkness of people's lives. Loving all because He first loved us.
3 This is how we are sure that we have come to know Him: by keeping His commands. 4 The one who says, "I have come to know Him," without keeping His commands, is a liar, and the truth is not in him. 5 But whoever keeps His word, truly in him the love of God is perfected. This is how we know we are in Him: 6 the one who says he remains in Him should walk just as He walked.
John 2:7 Dear friends, I am not writing you a new command, but an old command that you have had from the beginning. The old command is the message you have heard. 8 Yet I am writing you a new command, which is true in Him and in you, because the darkness is passing away and the true light is already shining. 9 The one who says he is in the light but hates his brother is in the darkness until now. 10 The one who loves his brother remains in the light, and there is no cause for stumbling in him. 11 But the one who hates his brother is in the darkness, walks in the darkness, and doesn't know where he's going, because the darkness has blinded his eyes.
If we love Him, we will walk in His Light!
#12
Posted 31 January 2005 - 04:50 PM
#13
Posted 31 January 2005 - 05:14 PM
We judge because we are selective, choosing some and excluding others. That is no different than a judge declaring some guilty and others innocent. It is with evil thoughts because we judge base on our own selfish desires toward things we like, toward things we exalt thereby idolizing.
#14
Posted 31 January 2005 - 05:17 PM
I guess by giving one more favor than another I am saying that one is more important than the other. Because who am I to say who is more important than someone else. I don't know what really causes people to act the way they do so by choosing one from another I am judging.
You know, I've never really thought about it from that way.
Renee'
#15
Posted 31 January 2005 - 05:29 PM
Selfishness and discrimination give way to evil thoughts of how we'll look or how we can benefit from it rather than Christ or the Church.
#16
Posted 01 February 2005 - 12:17 AM
When we show favoritism, we are telling others who is worthy of our attention and who is not, and this can make an impression on those that witness our favoritism. Jesus treated everyone as worthy.
How does favoritism make one a judge with “evil thoughts”?
When I show favoritism to the poor or less fortunate over the rich or more fortunate, or show favoritism to those that are sick or disabled over those that are healthy and able, I am saying only those that I favor deserve the attention .. when Jesus gave attention to all. It was quite a revelation to me to know I was prejudiced, and judgemental when I knew that I cared about the poor and less fortunate.
#17
Posted 01 February 2005 - 01:22 AM
#18
Posted 01 February 2005 - 01:32 AM
Emma Vega, on Jan 31 2005, 06:22 PM, said:
How does favoritism go hand in hand with evil thoughts? Its quite simple: through our own selfish desires (anytime it is not for Gods' glory and for our own is a N0-NO) is just proof that the flesh that we live in is "wretched" as Paul had described it--the spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak kind of thing. We are all GUILTY of doing this-judging. Thank God that HE brings it to our attention, to change our hearts, attitudes, and mind. We just need to be more conscious of what we do, think and say.
#19
Posted 01 February 2005 - 03:37 AM
of prejudging(prejudice) and thus become judgmental. It is sin. Indeed Jesus condemned such hypocrisy(Matt.7:1-5).
When we judge someone, it is usually with a critical spirit. It stamps from an evil heart (Jeremiah 17:9,10), that puts down
one human and sets up another (meaning showing favoritism and partiality).

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