Q2. Humility, Gentleness, and Patience
#1
Posted 04 September 2006 - 12:47 PM
#2
Posted 11 December 2006 - 08:40 PM
Without patience and humility we will be at odds with each other. To preserve unity we must have patience and humility, then when opposing issues arise we will deal with it and not allow the peace, among us, to be disturbed.
What happens to the reputation of Jesus Christ when we have right doctrine along with a sense of arrogance towards those who disagree with us?
When we have right doctrine and still have a sense of arrogance towards those who disagree with us we bring the Word of God to none effect in us. Having right doctrine and not living according to the commands of Christ invalidates what you profess and Jesus is dishonored.
How are we to be both "gentle" and to "fight the good fight of faith"?
From time to time we might find ourselves in a situation that, if we are not being led by the Holy Spirit, we'd lash out and attempt to destroy the person causing us pain. But we can remain "gentle" and "fight the good fight of faith," when we resist the emotion of anger and not allow it to overcome us, but rather use the Word of God to ward off the advances of the enemy and live peaceably with everybody.
#3 Guest_Tabatha_*
Posted 22 December 2006 - 08:28 PM
Q2. (Ephesians 4:2) Why are patience and humility so important to preserving unity? What happens to the reputation of Jesus Christ when we have right doctrine along with a sense of arrogance towards those who disagree with us? How are we to be both "gentle" and to "fight the good fight of faith"?
Unity does not just happen; We have to work at it Often differences among people can lead to division, This should not happen in the church. In stead of dwelling on what divides us, we should remember that we are one body; one spirit; one hope, one Lord, one faith, that there is one God, We must learn to appreciate people who are different from us by being patient, gentle, with humility. We should learn to enjoy one another as Christ's Body. Complement one another. We shoud see how our differing gifts and viewpoints can help the church. Being jealous and competive only brings hurts and offenses. Always show forgiveness and try to work together to build God's Kingdom so the non believer would want what we have.
#4
Posted 12 January 2007 - 07:05 AM
God bestows upon us all that we desire and all that we ask for. We only have to ask in His will. This is so humbling to me that He loves us so much and wants us to be so satisfied, He will bless us at every opportunity that He gets. He is an awesome Father.
What happens to the reputation of Jesus Christ when we have right doctrine along with a sense of arrogance towards those who disagree with us? How are we to be both "gentle" and to "fight the good fight of faith"?
Well we sure don't want to be arguing over scripture and or our interpretation of scripture. We really don't need man face's doctrine when we have the Word of God and the Holy Spirit to teach us what our Father wants us to know and to understand. If folks disagree with us, fine. It's salvation that they deny and that is not fine. God's desire is that none perish. If we come upon a road block we have tools to tear them down.
Matthew 17:20 He replied, "Because you have so little faith. I tell you the truth, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there' and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you." Some manuscripts leave out verse 21 and for the life of me I can not figure this out unless satan doesn't want people to know that there is such great power in it. The verse is like this: 21 But this kind does not go out except by prayer and fasting. So by scripture sometimes left out, we do not know that we must fast and pray to bring down the mountain through faith.
If we come across someone who does not want to listen we do not walk away and stay away. We walk away and pray and fast and then return and return and return until the battle is won. We know it will be but we can not give up.
#5
Posted 13 January 2007 - 11:48 AM
Q2. (Ephesians 4:2) Why are patience and humility so important to preserving unity? What happens to the reputation of Jesus Christ when we have right doctrine along with a sense of arrogance towards those who disagree with us? How are we to be both "gentle" and to "fight the good fight of faith"?
You must have these qualities when dealing with people who are different than you. Unity will take some patience. Sometimes you may not agree with someone or maybe they do things a little differently than you, or they may be of some other culture, race, etc.. but you will need some patience when dealing with people who are unlike you. You can learn something from them. With patience comes humility. Being humbe can be difficult especially when you are used to having your way but this is a quality you must possess when dealing with others that are different from you in order to keep the unity. This is what Jesus Christ requires of us. He will exalt those that are humble not those that are prideful. When we deal with self righteous, it discredits our Lord. Because Jesus told us that we are to love God with all your heart, mind and soul and love your neighbor as yourself. Your neighbor is not just someone of your same culture or family etc. Your neigbhor is not limited to people in your neighborhood. Your neighbor emcompasses all types of people. God is not a respector or person. We are all one in the body of Christ. Jesus said with love and kindness have I drawn men. That is what we have to do as Christians in order to win the lost, that is fighting the good fight of faith.
#6
Posted 13 January 2007 - 11:54 AM
Love is not possible with out patience and humility.
Mt 22:38 This is the first and greatest commandment. 39 And the second is like it: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' 40 All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments."
How are we to be both "gentle" and to "fight the good fight of faith"?
Be like Jesus he love everyone and he showed his love by how he cared for the people. But he also had harsh words for the hard hearted sinners.
MT 23:33 You snakes! You brood of vipers! How will you escape being condemned to hell?
#7
Posted 13 January 2007 - 11:22 PM
Right doctrine will never replace love and service to others as a witness to our Lord. "By this shall all men know that you are my disciples, that you have love for one another". Love is our focus. If we don't have love we are just a big noise with no meaning. (!Cor13:1). Arrogance in any form misrepresents Jesus completely. If we misrepresent (lie about) a product in business we will be sued or fired. Misrepresenting Jesus is no lesser a crime. His Name is to be honoured in everything we do and say lest we be found to be misrepresenting Him to those whom He desires in His bride.
There is incredible power in gentleness. I have found that you can get away with all sorts of confrontation if you do it with gentleness and sensitivity. Gentleness wins confidence because it is unthreatening and seeks only good. Australia is building great relationships with Asian countries nearby because it sends its army in when there are great disasters to assist and bring medical resources. When they have done what they can they depart peacefully, having done only good things. This is mighty powerful diplomacy. It works at every level! It opens the way for conversation with those countries on other levels. We need to apply this diplomacy at every level of our lives, fromfamilies to neighbours, to cities, to countries. God is so honoured.
Fighting is done with truth, for the truth will set us free. Nothing else does. So we apply the truth in every situation, gently, in order that people will be able to let down their defences and receive it.
#8
Posted 14 January 2007 - 04:32 PM
Why are patience and humility so important to preserving unity?
Without either it would be hard to be who God intends us to be. We we can be patient and walk in humility its easier to walk in love than when we don't have either one.
What happens to the reputation of Jesus Christ when we have right doctrine along with a sense of arrogance towards those who disagree with us?
We make him look bad when that happens. We need tow alk in love and let his love flow out into others.
How are we to be both "gentle" and to "fight the good fight of faith"?
We are to do everything out of our love for him. If we learn to love even correction is easier to take.
Mary
#9
Posted 14 January 2007 - 06:09 PM
#10
Posted 15 January 2007 - 04:33 AM
When we are arrogant or prideful toward those who disagree with us we are not being a disciple of Jesus. He loved & respected those types of people & allowed God & the H.S. to change their lives.
We need to be gentle with others & love them. We fight the good fight as we seek to overcome our own "sin natures" and to grow to be more like Jesus Christ.
#11
Posted 15 January 2007 - 02:34 PM
#12
Posted 15 January 2007 - 02:45 PM
Q2. (Ephesians 4:2) Why are patience and humility so important to preserving unity? What happens to the reputation of Jesus Christ when we have right doctrine along with a sense of arrogance towards those who disagree with us? How are we to be both "gentle" and to "fight the good fight of faith"?
Without patience tempers can fly off the handle and dis-unity will result. Without humility one will think they have the right to have everything their way, because it's the best!
Case in point: I have a member of the famiy who chews ice constantly. As a child growing up I was never allowed to make noise when I chewed...celery, apples, gum, and never ICE ! As an adult I have a very high intolerance of people who make noise eating/chewing. This member knows how this affects me and why, but insists on doing it anyhow. My impatience and prideful attitude has caused her to do this, I believe, because she can and because I have no right telling her she can't.
My solution now is to just remove myself from the situation as long as she has a glass of ice...in MY home!
This has NOT caused a volitile situation...but an unpleasent one...almost every time we're together!
Yes, patience and humility are very important in preserving the unity!
We should never change what we believe to be right, but we should never be arrogant in our belief. And we should never be so arrogant to think we can't learn something from someone if we just listen...listening opens the door for sharing...and possibly enlightening someone in their errors.
Christ didn't always speak with gentle words (money changers in the temple, "Oh you brood of vipers", etc) but He was quick to point out the proper way to behave and believe. We are Christ's ambassadors, we must act like Jesus did...we represent Him.
#13
Posted 15 January 2007 - 05:09 PM
#14
Posted 15 January 2007 - 09:39 PM
~ Love is the core of Pauls command.That command also came from Jesus.We must fight and take hold spiritually,we must have an active faith,obeying God with courage,(and doing what we know is right).We must be in control of ourself and our emotions.We must do everything out of love and be slow to anger.We obey God because we love Him and want to please Him.Build our church on love and give God all our glory Amen
#15
Posted 15 January 2007 - 09:56 PM
Patience and humility are important to preserving unity because it develops a humble and a more gentle Christian. Not controlling, prideful, and arrogant, which are traits that are self serving allowing self-seeking power and glory for one who is not deserving of worship. Patience and humiltiy brings about a faithful unity.
When we're arrogant we project an aura of perfection.
We can be gentle as Christ and know that God is in control and if there is to be a change God will be the Changer for he is the only one who can change the hearts and minds of his creation, that is not our role. We are servants of Christ and as Christ has demonstrated we should also be servants to one another. Jesus loved people and he accepted them with his love and understanding a love that changed the people. Jesus didn't address the people with insults instead he embrassed them with love. This same love won him many hearts, the word of this love spread and many more hearts seeked the love and care that Jesus displayed.
#16
Posted 16 January 2007 - 12:58 AM
They keep us at peace with those around us if we allow them to become fruit in our hearts. Without it we can't help but gripe and complain about the faults of those around us while over looking our own.
The reputation of Jesus is of no effect when we cause others to see the short comings that we display when we can't show love through patience and humility.
To be both gental and to fight the good fight of faith we need to first show our love for those around us by being gentle when bring any kind of correction to them. We need to first be willing to be corrected and show that we are trying to live the life that comes from being a chosen child of God. Jesus expect us to first be compassionate and forgiving before being critical of those brother and sisters that are also a part of His chosen family.
#17
Posted 16 January 2007 - 10:21 AM
With patience and humilty grounded in love these wrinkles can be sometimes ironed out, i must point out the word sometimes though.
The reputation of Jesus would be affected because people in the world see the church as hypocrites, seeing people carry on in church, we must be showing the true nature of Christ which is displayed in these 4 aspects of life, patience, humility, gentleness and bearing one another in love.
We can be gentle and fight the good fight by being 'rooted and grounded in love' [Eph 3:17] This will be always be the best way in confrontation for either the other party or yourself.
#18
Posted 16 January 2007 - 02:37 PM
We must be patient with one another because we all have anidea that we think is right, and by having patience and listening to one another we can have unity.
#19
Posted 17 January 2007 - 02:31 AM
#20
Posted 17 January 2007 - 04:58 AM
We must be patient with others and accept them where they are. God will bring about any changes needed in them (and in us). We are to be gentle with people, not judging or arrogant. At the same time, we must live our faith so others can see in us lives of peace and joy so they will have a desire to know Jesus too.

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