Q4. Dressing in Fancy Clothing
#2
Posted 11 January 2009 - 01:38 AM
They were dressing so as to bring attention to themselves.
This is a hard thing. Where I live, it is all about what you're worth, or are you trying to catch a mate. To me, if you want to show Jesus to other people at church, You should dress modestly, but with taste. Afterall, there may be people in the church that are not as well off financially as I am, and they might not feel welcome for whatever reason. Today, we have rich people who go to church with rich people, and we don't think about the fact that we will all stand before God, and He won't care if we were rich or poor. He won't care about our skin color, or what country we lived in. He looks at the heart.
#3
Posted 18 January 2009 - 03:23 AM
Maybe the women were more concerned with their clothing and how they looked rather than what their inward appearance portrayed. It is by our hearts that we are judged by God and by man.
O yeah, we might be extremely attractive, for example, look back for a minute at the striking beauty of Princess Diana. She was a most beautiful women and yet the Prince yearned for the love of another women who is not considered to be favored at all in the looks department. This is what has been portrayed in public. But what did the heart of the Prince see in the other women? His attentions were not drawn to the beauty of Diana and her heart grew weak for the lack of his love. Women who claim to be devoted to God should make themselves attractive by the good things they do. To me, the efforts that Diana made towards showing compassion to hurting and aides children were of the utmost beauty in my opinion. Beautiful, yet only God knows where her heart stood and we judge not.
How do we apply the principle of Paul's directive in twenty-first century churches without instituting a new legalism?
Judge not and be judged not. Matthew 7:3 And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye? We must all keep our eyes focused on the finish line so that we may finish well, lest we don’t finish at all because we get to caught up looking at how someone dresses? Just a guess......
#4
Posted 18 January 2009 - 05:01 AM
It should also be kept in mind that temple prostitution was common in the culture and time so Paul is giving a warning to not go down that road.
The important thing to keep in mind is that God judges our hearts, not our wardrobes, however we do have a calling to present ourselves in an appropriate manner so others will receive the gospel from us. If I dress in a 3 piece suit and go to the inner city, I stand out like a sore thumb and will not get a very warm reception. If I go to a suburban church and dress in blue jeans I will not likely make a favorable impression. We need to be like Paul and be all things to all people.
I think it is also important to dress modestly so as not to incite ****. There are men and women attending many churches who dress in a manner that is intended to draw the eye in a way that God would not approve of.
#5
Posted 19 January 2009 - 04:23 PM
Q4. (1 Timothy 2:9-10) How did women dressing in fancy clothes threaten to compromise the church's witness in Ephesus?
Even today the question remains, what makes the Christian different from the rest of the world? Women (and men, for that matter) aren't to dress primarily to draw attention to themselves, but are to dress in a way that projects propriety and decency. Once again in order to consider others, i.e. where there are great differences in worldly status (wealth, position, etc.) among members of the same church, it is necessary to think twice before doing certain things – wearing expensive watches/jewelry - without this becoming an obsession. The sword cuts both ways, people should not be comparing themselves to others in a church environment where we get together to worship the Lord.
How do we apply the principle of Paul's directive in twenty-first century churches without instituting a new legalism?
As with all things, conduct yourself so as to not cause offence to anyone. As Paul himself wrote, he is free to do all things, but in order not to offend others he does what is good for them (1Corinthians 9:19-23). This is done of own free will, not because of some or other law that is being kept (resulting eventually in self-righteousness). Dying to self is crucial to be able to put others first. In Revelation 2 we read:
:4 Nevertheless I have [somewhat] against thee, because thou hast left thy first
love. :5 Remember therefore from whence thou art fallen, and repent, and do the first works; ……
#8
Posted 20 January 2009 - 03:10 AM
Without imposing legalism we suggest that women dress appropriately, decently, with the thought in mind of NOT drawing attention to themselves--rather let their good deeds be seen!
#9
Posted 20 January 2009 - 10:08 AM
I believe that it might have been as pastor stated causing a riff between the wealthy and poor because of the jewelry. I also think that it might have been related to the temple prostitutes and Paul trying to get the church to set a higher standard. A woman dressed to draw the attention of men is not the way a woman should be dressed for church. How can you witness for Christ when the person you are ministering to is looking at your chest or other part of the body. How do we apply this today is the same as then we our own sense of value. I often see women and sometime their children dressed in my more for the street than church they may not think about but there are always some men looking where they should not be. I believe that this is something that only the individuals can change as they seek a higher calling from their God.
#10
Posted 20 January 2009 - 10:22 PM
Our outward appearance is a reflection of our inward being. The women who were dressing as those of the world, outwardly it appeares as if self was still in control. To me it isn't the clothing in itself, but, the prupose for why they were dressing like that.
How do we apply the principle of Paul's directive in twenty-first century churches without instituting a new legalism?
When I was first saved, the church taught me a legalistic form of holiness, to be holy, you are not to wear jewelry, wear make up, etc. - As I grew up in the Lord, I saw holiness in a different light; God's desire for me, is for me to put on the garment of righteousness, the garment Christ gave me to put on, let this be my adornment.
#11
Posted 21 January 2009 - 10:57 AM
I think women were drawing attention to themselves through those make ups.
All women would remember that beauty begins on the inside a gentle, modest, loving character gives a light to take face that can not be duplicated by even the best cosmetic. A carefully groomed and well-decorated exterior is artificial and cold unless inner beauty is present. The general rule for both women and men emphasizes that both behavior and dress must express submission and respect to Jesus Christ.
#12
Posted 21 January 2009 - 12:45 PM
Women that were more concerned about how they looked rather than worrying about worshiping the Lord threatened the church, because their dressing habits also distracted other people from worshiping the correct way.
We can dress sensible when we go to church, not overly dressing, underly dressing or wearing to much makeup. When people are paying more attention to a woman rather than the preacher because of the way a person is dressed, it is wrong. That is not what the Lord wants. He wants you to come to church to worship him, not someone else.
#13
Posted 21 January 2009 - 01:25 PM
Let me start off by saying that I like how you worded this.
I think anything that takes the focus off of God and puts it on our surroundings is not a good thing. There should be no distractions when we are in the house of the Lord. \ We are and should be set apart. People should be able to look at us and know that we belong to Christ. I'm not saying dresses down to our ankles no make up or anything but Christian women should dress modestly.
Charlene1956
Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen. Hebrews 11:1
#14
Posted 21 January 2009 - 01:35 PM
1. Because it is the desire of God that all be saved, God saved us so that we an save others too. That is the purpose of our creation.
2. They were racists they lack the natural love of God, they were self centered instead of preaching the GOSPEL to the whole world as commanded by our Lord Jesus Christ
Answer to question 2
1. To show that Jesus Christ completed a perfect work of our redemption,
2. by bridging the gap between us and God and then offered himself as a sacrifice
Answer to question 3
1. just like today church the men were not in agreement in the spirit but in the physical they lift up hands unto God , there was not unity of purpose but purely doctrine, bitterness was the order of the day
2. It is a waste of time because God will not accept it.
Answer to question 4
1. Women in those days dressed to draw attention to them selves rather than to the glory of God, it was also classifying women into the rich and the poor thereby coursing divisions in the church.
2. clothing should not be an outward thing, women should dress moderately and season their services unto God, dressing could also vary according to the culture of the people but it should be to the glory of God and not to show off
Answer to question 5
1. Women should be lead to lead or not to lead
2. the Bible tell me that those who are lead by the spirit are the sons of God, God’s ways are not our ways he can decide to use anybody at any time , he can call a black white because he only has the power to change it to white after all he called those thing that were not as though they were.
#15
Posted 21 January 2009 - 02:15 PM
"all things are lawful for me; but not all things are useful.." 1 cor 6:12
there are 2 ways to look at this :-
a) dressing up for church to honor God, and each other - which would suggest modesty & good taste without causing undue offense and division.
it is clear that church leadership need to set the pace & to educate the people in what is appropriate and proper; even more - in what is "useful" as we are indeed the light and salt of this world.
pre-believers do not read the bible or know jesus; but they do read us christians everyday - what we do, say, how we conduct ourselves, the way we dress, spend our time & money; all speak volumes to a lost and dying world.
amen...
#16
Posted 21 January 2009 - 02:37 PM
Today I believe that Paul would address his letter to both men and women.
#18
Posted 21 January 2009 - 03:05 PM
Womens attire in the churches in Ephesus was distracting from worship, most likely because of the motivation for excess adornment, to attract men or to show off status in society, both of which are out of place in church to say the least, as both detract from the purpose of church, to learn about and worship God.
It is possible to look clean, well groomed and dressed without being ostentatious or whorish. Doing so shows respect for self and for church. However, if a sufferer showed up at church ragged, unkempt, even dirty, but humbly desiring to be close to God, such closeness would occur as God is concerned with the inward person above all.
#19
Posted 21 January 2009 - 03:19 PM
--How do we apply the principle of Paul's directive in the 21st century churches w/o instituting a new legalism?
Sound doctrine is vital. We must apply principles by adhering to them ourselves. Jesus only did what God told Him to do and He only said what God told Him to say. In other words He lead by example. Jesus was as effective as He was because of this life style. In teaching sound doctrine, people will learn the Fruit of the Spirit. Against these there is no law, according to the scripture.
Keep God First-
#20
Posted 21 January 2009 - 05:04 PM
Woman wearing fancy clothes could threaten to compromise the church it is because of some reasons, can destruct to other during service, some could say some comment causing them to sin,
I think as a Christian we have to wear modestly. be presentable because we are to fellowship with our King. it is true God is not looking in outside appearance but in the heart, What Paul want is either you are poor or rich dress modestly. meaning clean. because we are representing God.

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