These are great questions, right on target!
> Why did Judas object to Mary’s extravagant act of devotion?
Judas acted out of self interest because his motive may very well
have been to take some of the money for himself after the perfume has been sold and then have the rest given to the poor - and keep the details of that transaction only to himself since, he was in charge of the disciples’ money, and was a thief!
> Why did Jesus defend her?
Mary’s act of devotion came from a place of pure love, (for something appropriate) and selflessness. The second reason is that Jesus knew that Mary knew that Jesus’s death was coming, and it was not only an act of devotion to anoint his feet with this extremely expensive perfume, but as an act of preparation for his burial.
> Why did Mary do this?
Mary’s love for Jesus was so immense because she has been seeing his great acts of compassion, love, and caring, all along. She perhaps felt that her action here might be a way of acknowledging, in kind, the acts of love that Jesus had performed. This act of devotion, then, seemed totally appropriate to her as a response to what Jesus had already done in his life among them. A second reason for what she did maybe that she intuited, or actually knew of, Jesus’s death coming up, and this anointing would also be preparing for that. This is shown directly in Jesus’ response to Judas Iscariot: “She did this in preparation for my burial.”
> What does this teach us about worship?
It shows how worship can take many forms. We can show our devotion to God in likely more ways that what we’re accustomed to. We can also, and often, worship things of this world as well. So worship in the broadest sense means giving recognition, attention, and the action of giving ourself over to something in our lives, with great passion, single-mindedness, and commitment.
> Does your worship tend to be cheap or extravagant?
My worship to God is cheap. It is not what is at all appropriate. And I want to change that.
> For you, what would be extravagant worship?
It would be the single-mindedness that I have had in the past in doing service,
Bible study, prayer and meditation, church worship, and tithing - or - in doing any one of these things - to start again!