It is extremely hard (and really impractical) to be willing to "bear your soul" with any but your closest, most trusted, Christian friends. You may be the most sincere and trustworthy of folks when it comes to relationships but unless that "other" person has given you reason to believe they are just as sincere, you aren't likely to go below a surface relationship with them. One needs to believe that what we share with others is treated with respect and not twisted into some exciting phone calls later.
John 17:22