The bible tells us to sustained from having sex prior to marriage. We all know this is a hard thing today; especially in today's culture. If Christians conform to believing sex is acceptable now, then there is a problem because God's love is not showing. If any Christian loves God, then he/she will not believe as the world or today's culture believes. It is true that we, as Christians, fall short by doing something that is not of God but we are forgiven as soon as we ask the Lord for forgiveness and our souls will be out of whack because of it. We have to stand strong and think on him and really take the quiet times to talk with him and ask him to guide us in the right direction and protect us from all temptations. I see some people are losing sight of being a Christian or believing in God. It is sad.