Who is the unforgiving servant? We need to incorporate this lesson into our own lives/mind/practice. If we don't extend it we won't receive it. Justice and forgiveness have a dependent relationship. Forgiveness should occur whether or not we receive justice.
Forgiveness is not about changing the other person, their actions, or their behavior. We become removed from their influence. Forgiveness is important because if we don't forgive it creates tension, anger, and destructive rather than positive thoughts. If we get rid of these feelings, understand why we have these feelings, rebuild our world and let go we can move forward. Promise God, our family, friends that we will stop dwelling on this we can stop searching for reasons for behavior until we are satisfied
It is about how I feel.
It is about how I understand what happened.
It is about how I know i won;t happened again.