Hebrews 10:25. Not forsaking the assembling: This admonition involves far more than erratic attendance. It involves the entire worship of Christ and it is an outward indication of an inner condition. The assembling of God's people provides opportunity for reciprocal encouragement, strengthening, and the stirring up that can be gained from one another (Col 3:12 -16). it consist of participation in worship and fellowship. The church is a body interacting ( 1 Cor. 12: 14-27); it is not merely a dispensary of spiritual food and medicine. So I think the reason why people desert the house of God in our day is because they does not know the importance of fellowship and the worship of God, and also teaching, they are legit things that can prevent one from assembling, such as sickness. Also no individual can mature in Christ by themselves because Christ church is a body of which He is the head, if we refuse to gather with our brethren, in reality, refused to gather with Jesus, and walking in darkness. If we say that we have fellowship, with Him, and walk in darkness, we lie and do not practice the truth. But if we walk in the light as He is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus Christ His Son cleanses us from all sin. We can ask God to bless His house and ask Him to help us to live peaceable with all men especially those of the household of faith. to seek the good of God's house, is to love God with our whole being and to love our neighbor as our selves.