So often when discussing salvation one will say it is all about relationship with Jesus but I have found I was speaking it but not living it. If I am to have a great relationship with my husband I must spend time with him know his heart share things in common. I cant build a relationship spending only once a week and one - two hours. So to have true Christian fellowship we need to know and build a relationship with Jesus... in His Word getting to know and falling in love with Him,who He was, His heart...spending time talking with Him in prayer and then it is easier to fellowship with other believers with the same heart.....also truly knowing Him will better help us know his true followers b/c His Holy Spirit shows us in our spirit what is truth.....this I am learning more everyday....If I find ie Christians talking about what is wrong in the church, critizing, gossiping and c/o about all that is so bad about the world...I try not to get involved in this mind set and look at Him and what He has done for Me and how beautiful the world is.....