Q2. (3:3) Why should women try to look their best? How can trying to look their best divert women from what is more important? What is the balance?
I think looking your best should reflect your inner spiritual glow of the holy spirit. Your genuine love of Christ that you have within will appear on your exterior and it will show in your walk, your talk, your mannerisms, and even how you dress. I have found that there were things I wore before I surrendered my life to Christ that I will not wear now because it is no longer a reflection of who I am.
It is a big difference when you are trying to look your best out of being fashionable, as I can attest to, because for me, it only revealed to me that I had some deep seated insecurites that separated me from God. It diverted me from what was really important - cultivating my relationship with HIM. Once I truly gave my life and soul over to him and allowed him to use me, the healing process started and I began to see that no matter how flashy my apparel may be, it does not mean a hill of beans if you are not embraced by the love of your savior.