I believe that if I'm argumentive with my husband I am not showing purity of heart, I am not following what Christ tells me in the scriptures. The husband looks for moral purity in his wife, as a believer, and if we don't
live in purity it could turn our Husband away from the faith. We are to be adorned in purity of heart. Yes, we must be attractive to our husbands, and as a woman who cares about her man we want to be, but most importantly, it's what's in the heart that really matters. This shows reverence toward God. We wives should all be like Sarahs.
Husbands are to love us as Christ loves the church. That is with a love
that knows no boundaries. We are the weaker partner, not necessarily in bodily structure, but in the way our husbands should treat us. A husband should show his wife he cares for her, help her out, give her great love, show compassion. Isn't this what Christ does for His church? We women are to be submissive to our husbands, but when we're treated badly we may turn away from him. Jeanne E. Willman
