We get in trouble when we try to think for GOD. GOD can use women just as men to do his will. Remeber there is order. GOD says all things are to be done decently and in order. My wife is a minister as well and when she preaches the Gospel, GOD covers her and when she is done, she comes under my covering so that everything is done decent and in order. In that she has submitted to fully authority in Christ JESUS that no crack in the door is left for satan to enter. A true man of Christ does not have to prove he's dominant; The obedience of his family following the Word of GOD is evidence of that dominance. Therefore all in the family have submission dues and JESUS is the central focus.