Abiding in Christ means that you are in constant communication with Christ, there is very little else on your mind except thinking about the man that gave His life for me. A Christian that abides in Christ, will act, talk, and everything else that comes up in our daily walk, like Christ. In other words we will be Christ like. A person who is not abiding in Christ will be the type that are struggling in life still trying to make their mind up. It happens on a regular basis when you don't have a prayer life, and close communication with God.
His Bondservant
Mike