Jesus gave his mother to his beloved disciple John, first, John was a true disciple, he was the only disciple at the foot of the cross, all the others fled because of fear; secondly, to establish kinship with us, making us his disciples like John. Jesus gave his mother to John and by doing so gave us his mother too. John demonstrated obedience to God when he accepted Mary, without question, as his mother and that is the way we are to respond to Gods will as well. Thirdly, Mary gave birth to Jesus, she gave us our Lord and Redeemer, it only makes sense that we go to her when we need Jesus, to Jesus through Mary. Same as we go to our earthly mother when we need earthly mothering. It is Mary that is the one true disciple, always being there to do Gods Will with humility, obedience, and the greatest of love. Jesus giving his mother to all of mankind tells us that he wants us to be like her, she is the perfect model for us to learn how to be perfect disciples, how to love, obey, how to be humble, how to love God beyond all things. We apply all of this in our lives by loving each other the way Jesus loves us, by honoring God above all other things, being obedient to his will and accepting his Mercy. When we do all of these things, loving our neighbor naturally comes. Mary never said no to God, she always said yes, so too should we, John did! We should apply this in our lives by being obedient to our parents as well as to our heavenly Father, it is his will that we do so.