All Christians ought to exemplified the characteristics of Christ and yes a leader needs to be spiritually filled with the Holy Spirit. Compassion, openness, and a willingness to love others is essential, but a leader needs to be able to recognize their own shortcomings and pray and ask God to help. Leaders do not lead without God's help and seeking his wisdom in all things. Paul gave us these guidelines to assist the body in choosing those leaders that God calls. A leader is called by God for this area. In Corinthians, we are told some are called to be apostles, others prophets, others pastors etc. All Christians need to pray and listen to God and follow the direction of his calling, loving each other, and when a leader is set apart for ministry, then the body needs to pray and uplift that person daily, trusting in Jesus to empower the leader to step out in faith and to lead with the same qualities that Jesus leads with - love, compassion, honesty, kindness, truth, generosity, and open and willing spirit to follow where God leads. We say the Lord's Prayer and not only is it the prayer Jesus gave us - it is the perfect pray - Thy will be done. One we all need to remember - God's will be done. If it is of God, it will come to pass.