If you love, you submit. Easy as that.
God,Jesus and the Holy Spirit know what is best for us. We should submit out of love,not fear or because we are told to. Indeed the Bible does tell us to submit, but we adhere to those words because we love God not because we fear Him.
Maybe if there were more submission and less stubborness the church as a whole would thrive. There needs to be more love and mercy in the church with each other and also submitting under the leadership of the elders,deacons and pastors. They are placed there by God, and respecting them we are respecting God himself. Where the head goes, so does the body.
Love and submitt.......it's as easy as that. Or is it?