[Asking for help in many cultures is a great sign of weakness, a show that we cannot provide for ourselves-but wether it be a relationship with a spouse of God, when we learn to rely on each other, that is only when a relationship can begin. My sons football coach always tells the boys that ther is no "i" in the word team, it takes everyone to win the game. The simple fact is, is that no matter how much we would like to believe that we are in control, we are not -if it would be Gods, will we would not have woken up this morning or to realize that there is nothing that we have that we could not loose in a moments time wether it be to natural disaster, divorse or loss of a job. We need to leard to take all that we have and give them back to God-then whatever he allows us to keep is gift from Him and we need to be very thankful!! Thanks be to God that he is such a wonderful, generous and careing God